Relationships cost money. You can quantify them as you can anything else. Here Tom Tessin looks at the way you can control your money in a relationship setting:

You’ve moved out of your parent’s house and you’re finally on your way to financial freedom. There’s one thing you don’t have yet to complete your life goals. A relationship. Relationships are funny in way because every person you meet may like you, hate you, or have no idea what they think of you. That’s the beauty of dating. But after a while you soon realize that you can’t save money like your pals and you’re soon deeply in debt.

What a lot of people don’t realize is a relationship is an option in life. People may look at you differently if you don’t date but soon after awhile, you may notice a nice return on your money and little less stress on your life. I’m not saying to drop relationships completely but I’m trying to recommend that relationships are a temporary debt relief strategy.

Let’s take a scenario here and chart out the numbers. Say, you meet a partner and you decide to eat out three times within the week. You’re going to be the nice fellow and pay for all three. The dinners will average forty bucks a dish totaling out to be one hundred and twenty dollars. The next week, you get a phone call and that relationship is now over. If this pattern keeps going, that’s $6,240/year. After that full year, you’re still single, $6,240 poorer while the other man working on his career track and investments is now $6,240 richer.

Now, you’re probably getting the idea that I’m sexist. I’m not. When people get into debt, they try to see where the money is going. Credit cards, clothes they don’t need, and food. They don’t open their eyes and realize it’s on the worthless dates they go on week after week.

After all this, I’m sure you’re still thinking “Hey, I’m still going to date, money is not as important as love and I don’t want to be lonely my whole life.” That’s great, you have to have an optimistic view on your future and plan accordingly. While you still try to find that partner, you are going to have to write all your expenses down on paper and include “relationships” as one of them. This is of course, if you’re single and dating. If you’re married, you shouldn’t be reading this article anyways. Once you figure out your “relationship” budget, you will then be able to determine how much you can spend on movies, dinners, vacations, etc. This way, when the month ends and you look at your bank statement, you will be able to determine where the money has gone.

Of course, there are many other ways to save you money. Cutting back on your groceries, getting rid of the things you don’t need like satellite radio, cable television with the three hundred channels, or just eating at home.

About The Author
Tom Tessin is the founder of http://www.gotalkmoney.com.

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Credit repair is a difficult subject to broach because so many people who need it are in denial. Jim Eastman here exposes the “six myths of credit repair”.

If you’ve done any searching on the Internet for information pertaining to “Credit Repair,” you’ve no doubt found that there’s a great deal available. Unfortunately, there’s also a lot of misinformation as well.

Let’s take a look at some of the most common misstatements you’ll come across and examine them in detail.

MYTH 1
“Credit repair doesn’t work!”

While it’s true that credit repair is more “art” than “science” that’s not to say it doesn’t work. If you undertake to repair your bad credit score, there’s never any guarantee you can restore it to “perfect” status. But sometimes you can, and in almost every case you can at least affect some improvement in your credit score, and often major improvement at that!

First of all, credit reports for the most part are filled with errors. While there seems to be no general agreement, it’s estimated that anywhere from 1/3 (Attorney General of NY) to as many as 90% (Charles Givens Organization) of credit reports contain errors.

Removal of erroneous negative information alone will go a great way toward improving your credit score. But there’s more to the story, which brings us to myth #2.

MYTH 2
“Negative information that can be verified cannot be removed”

This is one of those statements that are “almost” true, but taken literally is misleading. As is often the case, the inclusion (or exclusion) of one seemingly small word makes the difference in a truthful statement, and one that’s not (or not necessarily) accurate.

Let’s take an analogy. Suppose it’s the middle of summer, and your grass has grown unusually high. Let’s also suppose that you own a lawn mower, it’s in good working condition, and has plenty of gasoline in the tank.

Now let’s say that you’re sitting on your couch and say to yourself “My grass will get cut today because I ‘CAN’ go outdoors anytime and cut it.”

So will your grass get cut? Not necessarily! Just because you “can” go outdoors and cut your grass doesn’t mean it’s going to get done. You can repeat this statement to yourself all day long, but your grass isn’t going to get cut until you actually go outside and DO it!

Likewise, because a negative item on your credit report “can” be verified doesn’t mean it will be. According to the Fair Credit Reporting Act, a credit bureau must investigate and verify “within a reasonable period of time” any item in your credit report that you dispute. If the “information is found to be inaccurate or can no longer be verified, the consumer reporting agency shall promptly delete such information.”

Now in this context “can be verified” clearly means verified by the credit bureau’s investigation of the item, and the “reasonable period of time” has been established (by subsequent rulings) to be 30 days. So if the credit bureau doesn’t complete its investigation of the disputed information within 30 days, or if for some reason the creditor fails to respond and verify the information, by law the disputed data must be deleted from your credit file.

MYTH 3
“Credit repair agencies are all scams”

It’s true that there ARE a good many unscrupulous credit repair agencies. But there are also some corrupt police officers, lawyers, and politicians. Yet we don’t label all members of these professions as “corrupt.”

If you’re looking for help to repair your bad credit you do need to be careful and do your “homework” when selecting an agency. There are many honest credit repair companies that are not “scams.” But beware of any who make promises as to results!

As stated above, it’s not always possible to restore your bad credit history to perfect status, and no one should be making any promises to that effect. Beware of any company that does! And while an agency will in all likelihood be able to improve your credit score, if any agency makes this promise, be sure it’s accompanied by a money back guarantee. Otherwise, look elsewhere. And don’t forget to ask for references and follow up on them.

MYTH 4
“You have to hire a credit repair agency or lawyer to fix your credit”

Going back to the analogy above, you can always hire someone else to cut your grass (or to do just about anything else) for your. And if fixing your own credit seems an intimidating task, you might prefer to hire a credit repair company to do it.

But it’s not really necessary that you do. First of all, credit repair agencies aren’t cheap. You can expect to pay anywhere from $2,500 to $5,000 or more. Plus, you’ll be paying a high fee for something you can just as well do for yourself, which brings us to myth #5.

MYTH 5
“It’s too difficult or complicated to fix your own credit”

A credit repair company isn’t going to do anything for you that you can’t do for yourself! Credit repair isn’t rocket science. It involves writing letters to credit bureaus and to creditors. If you’re able to write a letter, put a stamp on it and mail it, you’re able to repair your own credit.

“Given the proper knowledge, you can fix your own credit”

This statement IS true! You‘re entirely able to repair your own credit, given the proper knowledge. And given the proper knowledge, you can fix your own car, repair your own plumbing, or for that matter perform brain surgery.

While fixing your own credit is relatively simple and straightforward, you do have to know how to go about it. Essentially it involves getting a copy of your credit report and writing letters to the 3 major credit bureaus disputing negative information in your file.

But there’s a right way and a wrong way to do it. In fact even some of the high priced credit repair agencies get it wrong, which brings us to myth #6.

MYTH 6
“You improve your credit score by getting all the negative items on your credit report removed”

It’s possible to get all the negative items on your credit report removed and actually see you credit score go DOWN as a result! The reason? Your credit score depends on a number of factors, one of which is the length of your credit history. In some cases, you’re better off to NOT remove some negative items on your report, especially if they involve a few late payments in the distant past, but show timely payments during recent years.

While the “nuts and bolts” of credit repair is beyond the scope of this report, there are a number of sources of good information online. If you have bad credit, there are 3 major points you should keep in mind:

1. If you have a bad credit history, it can (and probably will) cost you many tens of thousands of dollars in higher loan interest over the years, as you’ll be charged much higher rates than you would be with good credit. If your credit is really bad, you may not be able to get a loan at all!

2. The situation isn’t hopeless! In almost every case you can improve your credit score. You can easily do it yourself or find a reputable agency to do it for you. But in any case, get it done.

3. If you choose to repair your own credit (recommended) there are good books and eBooks available that can walk through the process. Get hold of one and get started now.

Jim Eastman is the support contact for ErasingBadCredit.com. Anyone wanting to repair their own credit can get valuable advice on improving their Credit Score by visiting ErasingBadCredit.com and signing up for the free mini-course.

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Understanding the intricacies of financial terms is not easy. Many people find using a “simple” accounting package heavy going. Here Joseph Kenny explains the five main terms used in credit cards.

Credit cards are easy, right? You have a credit limit. As long as your balance isn’t as high as your credit limit, you can pay for things with your credit card. When you pay for something with your credit card, you don’t have to pay for it until later. You pay interest on your credit card balance and as long as you don’t go over your credit limit, everything’s fine.

Well, not quite. Here are some of the most frequently asked questions about credit cards - and their answers, of course.

What’s interest?

In a nutshell, interest is money that you pay a lender for the privilege of using HIS money to buy something.

What’s this about ‘interest rates’ and percentages?

The interest rate is a way of determining how much you’re paying for borrowing money on your credit card. It’s stated as a percentage of the outstanding balance on your card, usually as an APR or annual percentage rate. The lower the APR, the less interest you’re paying on the amount you owe.

Okay — so why would anyone choose a credit card with a high interest rate?

Most people don’t CHOOSE to pay a high interest rate. The bank decides what interest rate it will charge you, usually based on how much of a ‘credit risk’ you are. They determine that by looking at your history of paying bills. If you’ve got a history of paying bills on time, then you’ll qualify for lower interest rates. If you haven’t ever had any bills to pay, or if you’ve had trouble paying your bills, that will show in your credit history, too. Since it’s a little riskier to lend you money, banks will charge a higher interest rate.

One other reason that people might actually choose a credit car with a higher interest rate is for the rewards or privileges that come with that card. If the card includes special perks that you want, they may offset the higher interest rate and make it worthwhile.

My card says that I pay interest on the ‘outstanding balance’. What does that mean?

Your outstanding balance is the amount that you owe altogether on your credit card. Credit card companies generally calculate what’s called an ‘average daily balance’ for each month and base your interest charge on that. If you had a $50 balance from the first of the month to the twentieth, then charged a $400 computer, your interest will be computed on the average between 20 days at $50 and 10 days at $450.

What’s the ‘minimum payment’? As long as I pay that, I’m fine, right?

The minimum payment is the lowest amount that the credit card issuer will accept toward your balance. It varies from month to month, depending on your balance. Paying JUST the minimum balance may keep your credit card active and keep the credit card company from reporting your account as delinquent, but it will barely make a dent in the amount you owe. Whenever possible, you should pay more than the minimum amount. In fact, it’s best to try to pay off your balance in full each month to avoid paying interest charges.

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Joseph Kenny writes for the credit card comparison sites
http://www.creditcards121.com/ and
http://www.credit-cards-info.com/.

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Flexible payment mortgages are of growing interest to many people. Here the editorial staff of The Lending Tree explain why you might want to consider this option.

With most mortgages, your payment is the same every month. But what if your paycheck isn’t so regular? Would you like to be able to vary your mortgage payment depending on your cash flow? An option ARM — also called a flex-ARM or pick-a-payment loan — allows you to do just that.

How does it work?

An option ARM is an adjustable-rate mortgage with a twist. You don’t pay a set amount each month. Instead, the lender sends a monthly statement with up to four payment options. You simply choose the amount you want to pay that month and then submit your payment.

The options vary, but here’s the most common menu:

Minimum payment: This is calculated using an “initial” interest rate that can start as low as 1.25 percent. Because this payment is so low, it’s useful for months when you don’t have much cash on hand, perhaps because you are waiting for a commission or bonus check. But any unpaid interest gets deferred, or added to the principal of the loan, so your principal grows.

Interest only: You pay all the interest due, but none of the principal. This doesn’t reduce your mortgage balance, but it allows you to avoid deferring interest.

30-year amortized: This matches the monthly payment of a mortgage amortized over 30 years at your current interest rate. It includes both principal and interest.

15-year amortized: The same as above, but amortized over 15 years. This is the highest monthly payment. Choosing it allows you to reduce your principal faster than any other option.

The fine print

The biggest caveat with option ARMs is that those enticing initial rates are short-lived. The low minimum payments that make these mortgages so attractive can increase dramatically. In addition, every five years, the loan is recast — that is, a new amortization schedule is drawn up to ensure that the remaining balance will be paid off by the end of the loan’s term. When that happens, the minimum payment can be pushed even higher.

What’s more, if you defer too much interest, you can reach what’s called negative amortization. If your balance grows to 10 percent to 25 percent (depending on state law) greater than the original principal, your loan is automatically recast and you have to start paying the fully amortized rate, which will increase your monthly payments.

Another potential downside of option ARMs is that they’re more complicated than most other mortgages. Home buyers may be seduced without fully understanding how much the minimum payments will increase over the long-term. When the monthly amounts go up, these people can experience payment shock.

To learn more about flexible payment mortgages, visit http://www.lendingtree.com/cec/yourhome/yourmortgage/open-arms.asp

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